Why would a man need to define his destiny, and what is it all about?
On the way to achieving the goal of every person a large number of different obstacles coming from outside and tormenting him from the inside. It’s like a misunderstanding on the part of the inner circle, and inner fears and uncertainty in the final result. It should be able to sacrifice who you are for things in the future, and it is very difficult. And all this for the sake of something best and more for what awaits at the finish line for success.
There are people who know exactly what they want and for them, no matter how the goal is achieved, but in reality, it is a phantom minority. Therefore, people define their goals and deciding to change your life, not really knowing how to realize their dream, often takes on arms, not your vision of success and your path, and commit to someone else’s pattern of behavior and alien purpose acts as a copycat trying to live other people’s lives, instead of based on your purpose.
I do not call to become a hostage to belief in fate, but each of us has talents and tendencies for certain things or types of human activity. These aspirations arouse interest in us, which can transform into an obsession, making us enjoy ourselves if we are busy with this business. If we adopt other people’s motives and ways to achieve non-goals, the result will be either the absence of a result or non-receipt of satisfaction from it.
Therefore, it is so important to set for yourself your own goals that are not imposed on anyone, as well as determine the way to achieve them. With the goals, everything is much simpler with regard to the method, questions immediately arise. Typically, the method is a type of activity in which, becoming a professional and reaching heights, a person will be able to realize their potential and goals. You should not be led by other people, it is important to listen to yourself and honestly say what you want to achieve, what you want to become and what your soul lies with.
If you continue to live a life of others, most likely after a series of setbacks and critical situations, when you are exhausted from useless attempts to chase someone else’s happiness, you will finally understand what you want and only then, having returned to the source of your mission, will you begin to move in the right direction. Why waste time?
How to understand that a man has found his destiny
If you love what you are doing, if you are ready to devote a huge amount of time to it, when no one forces you (8-16 hours a day), then you have found your destination. Instead of going to a club on Saturday with friends, you are happy to be ready all weekend to do something that can bring you money, among other things – you have found your destination. Therefore, do not try to change yourself and live a strange life. Do not chase the destination, listen to yourself and let the destination find you.
The problem of lack of experience in the process of realization of destiny by man
Very often we are afraid to set very large goals because we do not believe that they are achievable. At that moment when the goal arises, you should not concentrate on the ways to achieve it at all, you should determine for yourself what you want and write down the idea on a piece of paper.
Immediately focusing on how the goal will be achieved, the person is more likely to get scared and conclude that this is impossible. But this is indeed so, it is impossible for who you are now. Therefore, on the way to your goal, you will change, and for who you become, your goal will not be something probabilistic, it will certainly arise in your reach zone, and in order for the goal to be realized you will only have to make enough effort. You did not have such experience, so you do not believe that this is possible.
Imagine your dream home. It is large, at least two-story, it has many rooms, windows and doors, and it really costs a lot of money. Remember your goal, but do not focus on the end result. Focus on your business, on those bricks from which your dream will be built, time after time, attempt after attempt, this approach will be easier for your mind to take. When you have walked part of the path, but have not yet reached your dream, you will turn back and notice how much has been done, what path you have traveled and what you have become. At this moment, you realize that everything is real.
