Any union of a man and a woman, no matter how strong, will change over time, and, moreover, not for the better. The bonds, which seem unshakable, weaken, and the emotions experienced in the company of the chosen one lose their dizzying acuity. In other words, the relationship becomes too predictable. This may well force the partner to go in search of a new love. Because it is so important to think about how to refresh the relationship in a pair, whether it be a marriage or a romantic union with a beloved man.
Spend more time together
However, this does not mean that it is enough to repair the apartment in common with the general forces or to write down family expenses for the next month, and the long-awaited harmony will come in the relationship. It means doing some nice things. These can be common hobbies, entertainment, visits to interesting places, travel – that is, everything that will bring both positive emotions, which will surely bring partners together. Even a banal film sharing in a home environment can seriously refresh the connection between a man and a woman, especially if you perform this activity on a regular basis. And it’s good, if it turns out to be a hilarious comedy, because laughter does not just update, but also treats relationships.
Another good option for a pleasant pastime is a trip to nature, especially with a picnic, sitting by the fire and spending the night in the forest. This atmosphere, as a rule, has to reduce the internal emotional tension, intimate conversations, which can not but affect the marriage and love affair positively.
Present the man with pleasant surprises
Begin to be the first to please your chosen one, and he will definitely pick up your initiative and also want to add fresh notes to the established connection. But be original: it is important to find something that will bring your husband or beloved man into the full rapture that will deeply touch him or make you look at you with other eyes – in a good sense of the word, of course. It does not have to be insanely expensive gifts – you do not want to buy a partner’s love? Your task is to surprise, astonish, move. For example, if the children’s photos of your lover lie somewhere in a closet, piled in a pile, buy a beautiful album and decorate them using your imagination and ingenuity. The same can be done with your joint photos: print them from electronic media, provide interesting records.
More often prepare the chosen one of his favorite dishes, as well as new, exotic dishes. He will appreciate your efforts with dignity, because the way to the heart of a man, as you know, lies through the stomach, and this rule has not been canceled.
Freshen up the relationship in a couple is capable of a romantic dinner. Arrange it yourself, preparing the event for the arrival of the beloved from the service. It is difficult to come up with a more unexpected and at the same time pleasant surprise than this one.
Send a funny anonymous gift to your husband for work. Use the courier for this. A gift that is guaranteed to cheer up your faithful can be a bunch of colorful balloons, an ashtray of unusual shape (relevant if your man smokes), a beautiful stylish statue, etc. As a result, the addressee will be tormented all day trying to understand who is so pleased with him. And, having come home from work and having learned that the unknown sender – you, will be pleasantly surprised. True, there is one “but”: you should not go this route if your partner does not have a sense of humor. Otherwise, you will not only not refresh the relationship, but you risk exacerbating them.
Write letters to your beloved
From time immemorial, letters to his beloved were the most effective way to show their feelings. Letters were sung by many writers and poets. And this is not surprising. It’s so nice to have a message from the person you love in your hand. The message you’ve been waiting for. The content of such letters should, of course, be a declaration of love. You can write such messages both on paper and on the electronic address.
But, to refresh the relationship with the chosen man, play with the letters. In this case, letters should be anonymous, imbued with tenderness, fervor. Write so that your man would never guess who suddenly inflamed him with love, but he was intrigued by the joke. Do so that he is looking forward to another love message from a beautiful stranger.
If you choose a paper variant, change the handwriting beyond recognition, use a beautiful paper. You can even slightly smother the message, but only, of course, not your usual perfume, which your second half knows. However, the fragrance should be exhilarating. If you go in step with the times and you prefer the emails, respectively, send them from an unfamiliar address by registering a new mailbox in advance.
When you realize that your chosen partner is keen on correspondence and the woman who started her, open up to him. You can be assured of 100%: your efforts will pay off with interest because the relationship will become simply enchanting after the implementation of such an idea!
Return to the happy past
Organize a date with your beloved man or spouse where you met him or where your first romantic encounter happened. This is easy to arrange if you live in a village where fate has brought you, or not far from it. But, even being hundreds of kilometers from the places you went with your beloved, when you just met, you can if you want to organize a joint trip to these very places.
Is this unrealistic? Do not despair! Surely you have some things left from the happy times of the first romantic dates with your lover. Find them and arrange an evening of memories. Your partner will not be able to withstand the magnetism of the past, he certainly completely voluntarily plunge into it with you with his head, because it is difficult to forget what once brought with something incomparable positive emotions. And such an excursion in the past days is unlikely to have any effect on the state of your relationship with an expensive man.
An important detail: for this event, dress and make yourself look like it was many years ago. By this, you will enhance the atmosphere of a happy past, in which you and your husband will have to immerse themselves for a short time.
Come before him in a new light
Relations, as already mentioned above, kill routine, habit. This can include bored images of partners: a man and a woman, especially long lived under one roof, already know everything about each other, they have nothing to surprise the chosen one. So it turns out that you need to change! Change the style of dress, hairstyle, make-up – in other words, the image. But this is not enough: it would be good to do more inner work on yourself, that is, change your behavior, develop some new qualities, for example, become more relaxed, self-confident, a bit bitchy.
And be sure to buy yourself a new perfume. A man should like your reincarnation, and, having understood your strategy, he, most likely, will also be involved in the game. As a result, your acquaintance will take place as though anew, and that means that feelings will break out with renewed vigor, and relations, of course, will update.